"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control."
(Galatians 5:22)
Many men may draw back a bit from this next fruit, which is the
quality of gentleness. Whether some of the liberals like it or
not, Jesus was incarnated into a human flesh body - but this
incarnation was done as a man - fully man and fully God. He was
not incarnated into the body of a woman - no matter how any
liberal tries to spin this basic fact, with many liberals trying
to make God gender neutral.
Since Jesus walked our earth as a man - the Son of man - study
His actions very carefully when you read the gospels and how He
handled different types of people. There were times that He
would engage and set people straight, like He did with some of
the Scribes and Pharisees. But there were other times that He
dealt with people very gently - with kindness and gentleness.
His gentle way of handling some of these people is what really
jumps out at you when you really study how He handled different
types of people.
Again, Jesus is the perfect role model for us to study and learn
from - especially with how He handled people while He was
walking down here on our earth. For men in particular, His
actions and behavior towards others should be a major study and
we should seek to pattern our own walk after Him. And one of the
qualities that He had operating in Him with great abundance was
the quality of gentleness.
The quality of gentleness is another major quality needed in our
world today. So many people have been beat up and hurt in their
dealings with other people - that just a gentle word, a gentle
touch from another Christian can really open up the door for
that person to be able to receive Jesus and His healing, saving
and deliverance power into their lives.
Once you really start walking in the Holy Spirit with His fruits
operating and flowing through you - you'll really be able to
feel and sense when you should handle a certain person or a
certain type of situation with more of a touch of gentleness
rather than with any kind of stern rebuke or condemnation. There
is a time for tough love - but there are also times that just a
gentle and loving touch is all that is really needed to properly
handle a certain situation.
The Holy Spirit will guide you in all of this. Just realize that
the quality of gentleness is one of the 9 fruits of the Spirit,
and this is one of the fruits that He would really like to get
worked into your personality - especially in being able to use
it when dealing with and helping out others.
Parents really need this fruit operating through them, as it is
very easy to get out of balance with the way you are correcting
your children. Sometimes more of a tough love approach is
needed, but at other times more of a gentle approach will be
better suited for the situation.
If all your children ever hear from you are stern words of
rebuke and criticism, and it is never properly balanced out with
words and actions of love, kindness and gentleness - then after
a certain period of time your children will start to pull away
from you and they will have no more interest or desire in
wanting to establish a good, solid, loving and deep personal
relationship with you.
Now here are some of the different definitions on the quality of
gentleness:
Mildness combined with tenderness
Gracious, kindly disposition, controlled strength
A disposition that is even-tempered, tranquil, balanced in
spirit, unpretentious and that has passions under control
A character that is equitable, reasonable, forbearing, moderate,
fair and considerate
Power and strength under control
Willing to pardon injuries, correct faults. One who rules his
spirit well
Not only will other people love and gravitate towards you more
if you learn how to walk in this quality - but you will be at
much more peace with yourself since you won't always have to be
fighting and striving with others when trying to help them out.
About The Author:
Article written by Michael Bradley, you can get the complete
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